18+ · For trans people and the people who date them
Dating apps that treat trans people as people.
Which apps let you say who you are, which ones protect you from harassment and which "trans dating sites" are really pay-to-chat with staff. For trans women, trans men and nonbinary people, and for cis people who want to date respectfully.
What we compare, and how
Policies that protect you
Gender options, pronouns, and whether the rules name transphobia, misgendering and fetishising as bannable. We quote the policy, not the press release.
Real people
Verification tools, and whether a site's own terms admit to staff-written or "virtual" profiles.
Privacy
What the profile exposes, how the company treats gender identity and sexual orientation data, and its breach record.
Cost
US App Store prices for the apps; for paid sites, renewals, refunds and chargeback fees from their terms.
Respect
How the product talks about trans people. Marketing that treats trans women as a fetish category is a warning about the whole site.
Seven platforms, side by side
Taimi, OkCupid and Feeld are where trans people date on their own terms. TSseeker and Trans Date are paid adult sites aimed mostly at cis men; read their reviews before paying. Stripchat and Jerkmate are cam sites: paid entertainment with trans performers, not dating. Our guide to the best trans dating apps goes deeper on each app's policies, and is TSseeker legit? explains how to spot pay-to-chat sites.
Affiliate disclosure: some links to the platforms on Trans.now may earn us a commission if you sign up or pay. It never costs you more, and no platform pays to be listed or to change what we write. How we rate
| Platform | Best for | Cost | Verification | Privacy record | Bots & regulators | Links |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
 TaimiLGBTQ+ dating and social app | Trans and queer people who want an LGBTQ+-only app with dating and community in one place. | Free; Gold ~$8.50-35 | Photo verification tool | Orientation shown only with consent | No regulator action found | |
 OkCupidQuestionnaire-matching dating app | Long profiles, many gender and orientation options, and matching on values. | Free; paid varies | Selfie prompts (Match Group) | Jan 2026 incident (Match Group) | FTC case vs. owner (Match.com) | |
 FeeldApp for open, kinky and non-monogamous dating | Queer, kinky and non-monogamous people, including many trans and nonbinary members. | Free; Majestic $29.99/30 days | Optional photo verification | No major breach found | No regulator action found | |
 TSseekerPaid adult flirt site aimed at trans women's admirers | No one looking for a real date: its own terms say staff write to members. | Subscriptions + credits; auto-renews | None published | Swiss company; chats recorded | Terms: paid 'animators' write to you | |
| Trans DateAdult trans personals site | People already comfortable on adult hookup networks who want a trans section. | Free to join; upgrades on AFF network | Few checks | AFF network: 2016 breach | Fetish-style marketing | |
 Stripchat (trans cams)Cam site; trans category | A large trans cam category, free to watch, paying only when you tip or go private. | Free to watch; tokens for shows | Performer ID checks (EU-regulated) | No major breach found | EU DSA rulings (Oct 2026) | |
 Jerkmate (trans cams)Cam site that matches you to performers; trans category | Being matched to a trans cam performer quickly, if you're happy to give a card upfront. | Card at sign-up; pay per show | Performer age/ID checks; 2257 | Partners may email you | No regulator action found |
Facts last checked November 2026. Each platform's review page lists the sources.
Three numbers worth knowing
39% of trans adults in the 2022 US Transgender Survey were harassed online in the past year because of their gender identity or expression.
42% of trans and gender-expansive people killed in 2024 whose killer is known were killed by a partner, friend or family member.
0 is how many of TSseeker's chat "animators" are labelled as staff: its terms say they are "not explicitly identified".
Sources: 2022 USTS Early Insights; Human Rights Campaign, 2024; tsseeker.com terms. Read our safety guide.